This is a venting post. I promise to get more pictures up here soon. My mac won't connect to the internet and that is where my pictures are saved. Any way, back to venting.
I provide language therapy for a LOT of children. Going into people's homes means working with everyone in the family. This is one of the perks of my job. I love meeting people and darling little kids. I love going into the CLEAN homes and seeing all the decor around the house. It is like living in an interior decorating catalog.
Oh and by the way NOT "clean" is defined as smelling like cat urine, dog crap, or human crap for that matter, moldy dishes (yes dishes can grow mold), and unidentifiable "mush" on the couch. To sit down you wish you could have Mary Poppins power and sit on the ceiling because it is the cleanest part of the house and even then it is questionable. Clutter, dusty picture frames, lint on the carpet, less than a month's worth of dishes in the sink, is NOT dirty! That is CLEAN! (My personal house has a little higher expectations, but it doesn't always achieve it.)
So I love my job! AND here comes the disclaimer to the previous statement. I don't like it when my families get offended. I have been reprimanded multiple times for being late to appointments and being EARLY! I have been too blunt, too professional and too friendly. I get really sick of getting told I am pretty much no where near perfect. I am tired of my bosses calling me into the office to tell me something else I did wrong.
Here is my side of the story! I really try to just be myself. I can't not be friendly, sorry, I just came that way. I try to be professional and sometimes it comes across as blunt. I try to be on time, but anyone who ever has done home visits that sometimes it just doesn't happen.
If you receive home visits from ANYONE here are some things you can do to make their life easier. First, be patient and give them a few minutes to get to your home, if they are late call them on their cell phone first instead of the boss! If they are too blunt or too friendly or anything else talk to them first. Speaking for all of us who do home visits, we really can't please everyone. If there is something you don't like just talk to us. We can't guess who is offended and by what.
The most frustrating thing is that when people get offended the only person they affect is themselves and in my case their child. I currently have one family who I have offended. They are cancelling all my appointments, which means their child isn't getting language services. I know why they are bothered by me and I wish they would just give me another chance.
Being offended is just a bitter feeling. I try not to be offended by other people. It is hard because the feeling is so validating. In most cases I don't think people try to offend others. We are all human and we all have different personalities, which is what makes the world unique. Unfortunately it also requires us to all have a little patience.